“Saying no actually helps my relationships because it prevents me from resenting the other person. People who really care about you don’t mind if you say no. I use boundaries as a way to weed out selfish people from my life.” —Arya_kidding_me “I hate being looked at as the bad guy for not wanting kids. Especially when others are being pushy about it with the ‘oh you will want them later.’ Like no tf I won’t.” —MaziKweenJoanWick “Not babying my husband or cooking/cleaning for him when we both have full-time jobs, even though everyone tells me I should do that.” —Ok-Bridge-1045 “I used to get sooo angry whenever someone mentioned blocking someone (no matter the reason). Then I started to do it and realized how much peace it brings me. I wish I would’ve learned sooner.” —souredsunshine
